Introducing...Anthony Caplan
Meet Anthony Caplan~~an
independent writer, teacher and homesteader in northern New England.
I was around sixteen when I discovered I was not meant to be
unhappy. Before that, as a teenager, I had blamed the world for my feelings of
dissatisfaction. But I found that I was capable of sometimes doing things
right, whether in a classroom, on the sports field, or lending a helping hand
to someone hurting worse than me. Slowly, life came into focus, and the dark
cloud of depression lifted.
Being an unhappy teenager makes you a deep outsider in
America, where if you are not actively pursuing happiness you might as well
renounce your citizenship and seek gloomier climes. So, the one big advantage
of being an unhappy teenager is it gives you a real understanding of what it's
like to be disenfranchised, cut off, and really, truly on your own. This can be
the first step to finding a cure to unhappiness, to realize that you are on the
side of the underdogs, the come-from-behind dark horses.
What is happiness? For all the many definitions, one
constant, whether you prefer a religious, ethical, scientific or economic view,
is that a key indicator of happiness is involvement with others - a lack of
self-centeredness. But if you've ever been cut off, lonely, an outsider, you
know the step from the state of depression to a place of well being leads right
over a deep and ugly canyon of self-doubt.
You can get there, but it takes a while. And usually time is
in short supply when you're a teenager. The pressure's on to step up to bat,
get with the program, begin the sprint of adult success - job, career,
marriage, etc. A depressed, lonely teenager needs to buy time. That's often the
first step on the road to recovery.
My book Latitudes - A
Story of Coming Home, is about that moment when a teenager realizes he can
make that first step outside of himself. How does he or she get there? What's
the process? What does success depend on? These are all questions I tried to
answer while telling a compelling and true-to-life story of teenage survival. I
chose a character like me, from a dysfunctional, bicultural family, to illustrate
the point that every quest for happiness begins with a similar set of personal
decisions, whether you're white, black, Latino or Asian, male or female, gay or
straight. It takes courage and perseverance and a disregard for conventional
opinion to overcome victimization.
Anthony
Caplan is an independent writer, teacher and homesteader in northern New
England. He has worked at various times as a shrimp fisherman, environmental
activist, journalist, taxi-driver, builder, window-washer, and telemarketer, (the
last for only a month, but one week he did win a four tape set of the greatest
hits of George Jones for selling the most copies of Time-Life’s The Loggers.)
Currently, Caplan is working on restoring a 150 year old farmstead where he and
his family tend sheep and chickens, grow most of their own vegetables, and have
started a small apple orchard from scratch His road novels, BIRDMAN and FRENCH
POND ROAD, trace the meanderings of one Billy Kagan, a footloose soul striving
after sanity and love in the last years of the last century.
His latest fiction
effort, LATITUDES – A Story of Coming Home, published June 30, 2012, is a young
boy’s transformative journey overcoming dysfunction, dislocation and distance.
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Caplan on:
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Enlightening, honest, real, sincere--those are the words that came to mind as I read your post. Thankful you were my guest too! :-)
ReplyDeleteAs I've shared before, my quest so to speak is to show that we're all more alike than different. My intention is to provide a platform where people can tell their stories in an open and honest way. By doing so, it gives others permission to honor their story. Your post is a perfect example.
I could plug most of your first paragraph into my life story. You wrote: "I was around sixteen when I discovered I was not meant to be unhappy." The first poem in my book After the Sixth Day was actually written when I was 16.
There's so much truth in your explanation about being an unhappy teenager in American society. However, I believe it also applies to adults in that "the first step of finding a cure to unhappiness [is] to realize" and honestly face your current state in life. Self-awareness is a powerful catalyst!
Thanks again for being my guest and for hosting me on your blog as well! May your journey be continually blessed, and I hope Latitudes reaches and touches thousands of people!
Be blessed!